This magic word again...

L.o.v.e…people say it as a magic word, which able to change each figure being different. Villain into hero, looser into winner, introvert to extrovert, miserable into happiness, and so on. And the way people treat this magic word, works on different way..so is the result. The way people express that word, also done in various way. There’s no certain norms or ethics about this action, people tend to explore what they feel when the finally claimed to be in love. Since this word is really complicated and have mighty effect on human, Love also caused pain as well. Still related with its mighty power, apparently Love able to ruin heart and damage human feeling as well. Today, I saw a huge regret and upcoming tears which hanging in the eyes of a girl. That cute face perhaps, able to conceal pain deep inside, but her eyes show the opposite. Though the tears isn’t clearly drop, but everyone who see her easily got the image she really insist to hide the tears away. The girl who I’ve known as a cheerful and enthusiastic person, suddenly fall into silence. Then I found out this weird action also caused by love, and sadly it tend turn into a heart broken.
I still remember how eager she wants to tell me about her feeling on someone that I know. There’s nothing that I can do except supporting her to express how she feels on that guy. But today, I found out that the result hasn’t gone exactly as we’re all expected. She fell into heartbroken and said it was like being cut with an invisible knife. I thought that phrase little bit overwhelming, but her face already convince me.
And it’s kind a first experience for me, dealing with heartbroken girl. She seeks for an advice and wisdom, which might able to tear her away from growing anxiety. I couldn’t offer her too many advice, since I have none of knowledge about this. I only able to describe love from the sweet side, and obliviously I tend use calculation in most of this matter. Applied Newton’s third law in also in human relationship, it’s all about action and reaction which needed to be calculate effectively. So, I can found out the result before it’s gone further. Perhaps it is hilarious idea, but sometime being a woman indeed complicated. There’s no doubt that most topic which women would do within discussion is about men, and that’s ok. I’d rather use certain parameter to measure where am I in front of a man, which I can read from his reaction upon my action. World do live in balance, so why we couldn’t convince our heart about this. But, the fact that love also has the huge power which able to diminish conscience and everything. That’s why I couldn’t offer much advice to her. My idea only easily applied on inclusive human relationship not the exclusive one or even further. And about healing broken heart, that wasn’t my call too. Since the fact that people always get what the deserve to get, always started within our self. I mean, if I want someone who honestly able to maintain behavior, do all good deed, and decent person, then I have to reflect on myself first. Do I honestly able to maintain behavior, do all good deed, and also a decent person???. If yes, we’re all can be optimistic to have that person as our future companion. I do understand that i'm a bad love conselor, sad thing is in my office people know me as a motivator. But i looked really messy in this case...:)